Genesis 19:12-14

2007.Jul.29 01:40

You’re Joking…Right?

Read Genesis 19:12-14 Full Chapter

Then the men said to Lot, “Have you anyone else here? Sons-in-law, sons, daughters, or anyone you have in the city, bring them out of the place. For we are about to destroy this place, because the outcry against its people has become great before the LORD, and the LORD has sent us to destroy it.” So Lot went out and said to his sons-in-law, who were to marry his daughters, “Up! Get out of this place, for the LORD is about to destroy the city.” But he seemed to his sons-in-law to be jesting. (Genesis 19:12-14, ESV)

One of the favorite cries against God is unfairness. Well, Lot at least can’t claim that here. Jehovah’s messengers tell Lot that the city will be destroyed and to get himself and all those he cares about out. Lot, for his part, believes them, and goes out the find some guys about to marry some of his daughters, in order to share the warning. His sons-in-law listen to Lot and assume he’s joking.

I find Lot fascinating. He’s the sort of husband and father I do not want to be. And, yet, I see a lot of him in myself. The security of the cities of the plains would sound inviting. Trusting my own reason to save me could well be my first reaction to situation clearly beyond my abilities. Wanting to go out on my own and prove myself: check. So, I’m going to spend a little time digging into a few words in this passage. I may over extrapolate and over interpret but I think there’s at least some good reminders for me in here.

If my father-in-law came to me and said “Up! Get out of this place, for the LORD is about to destroy the city,” I’ll admit my first thought would be that he was joking. But I know my father-in-law would not leave it at that, but make it clear that he was not joking. Once assured of that, I believe I’d get up and leave the city. I know I can trust my father-in-law. That Lot’s son-in-laws persist in assuming he’s joking makes me believe there’s something significantly (but not perhaps surprisingly) wrong with their relationship. Either his sons-in-law don’t respect their elders particularly, or Lot has not acted so as to gain their trust. Or both. That would be my guess: both. Lot strikes me as the type of guy who could justify to himself making fools of his sons-in-law just for a few laughs.

I want to live in such a way as to earn the trust of others. Why should I expect Jehovah to speak to me, or especially through me, if I have not shown throughout my life that I can be trusted? It’s tempting to ignore the “little” things, the just living right things, focusing instead on the “big success stories”. How many people have wanted to change the world, and forget to live right. Lot focused on building his wealth and his comforts. His sons-in-law will only be the first relationship he loses.

In contrast, I look at my father-in-law. Why is it that I would easily trust him and get out of the city? Because, I know, by the way he lives his life, that he values other people, especially his family, more than worldly success. He would not make such a joke because no matter how much fun he may have gotten out of it, it would have damaged a relationship, and I know him enough to know he wouldn’t do that. And I hope that throughout my life, people could say that about me.